A farewell ceremony is a sensitive and meaningful goodbye, full of human closeness, memories, and gratitude. Humanistic farewells are a non-religious way to honour the departed's life with warmth and respect. The ceremony is created individually, based on the person's life story, values, lessons learned, and what they left behind for others. Each ceremony becomes a silent thank you, full of genuine memories and human connection.
Ceremonies conducted at your chosen venue and time
The duration of the ceremony is 25-45 minutes.
Lithuanian, English, French, German, Italian and Russian languages are available
With the help of the Master of Ceremonies throughout the entire process
A humanist ceremony is an opportunity to have a personal and meaningful, secular ceremony designed specifically to honour the departed. Nothing is compulsory. Sharing memories, philosophical reflections, reading rituals or guest participation – all depend on what is meaningful to you. The end of a life can be celebrated as a commemoration of the footprints left behind and inspiration for future generations.
On behalf of all Grandma's relatives, I want to thank you for the sensitive and warm farewell ceremony. Indeed, we were very worried about how people who knew Grandma would react to such an "unconventional" ceremony, but I must admit that the result exceeded expectations. Dad described your conduct of the ceremony as incredibly moving. The prepared photo film dispelled the awkward atmosphere in the viewing room and encouraged many to share their fondest memories. Grandma's sisters found such a ceremony to be a dream farewell. The violin polonaise played by the violinist was personally the most touching part of the ceremony for me. We are incredibly happy to have found Lydėtuves. You are doing wonderful and much-needed work, so don't stop!
I never thought a funeral ceremony could be so pleasant. Seeing off a loved one not through tears and faceless mourners, but with amber dust over the bonfire, favourite poems, and music. It was a heartfelt ceremony, full of kind words, adventures, and memories of the deceased. As strange as it may sound, I haven't been to a better funeral. Now I can't imagine any other kind of funeral ceremony.
„The memorial ceremony was unforgettable! Your assistance in the face of loss is invaluable, and the results left an indelible impression on everyone who attended the funeral. Many asked who you were and where you were from, praising you for the beautiful rites. I myself am very grateful for the new knowledge you provided about our grandfather, for evoking the warmest emotions and unearthing deeply buried fond memories, for a ceremony that allowed me to delve in and grieve unhindered, and to forget earthly funeral concerns for at least a short while. What you do is incredibly meaningful, so we offer the biggest THANK YOU! We will definitely recommend you to everyone!“
Burying a loved one is incredibly painful, and when it's your 55-year-old father, a man who loved life with all his heart, it's truly difficult to accept... Therefore, I really wanted the farewell day to be as bright and philosophical as possible, a testament to Dad's life, rather than the fact of his death. For these reasons, I turned to Lydėtuves. There were already more than enough organisational matters and emotions to deal with, so I really wanted someone to take care of the main ceremony and related details (lighting the bonfire, amber dust, sound equipment (the farewell took place at our farm, outdoors), etc.). The ceremony created by Lydėtuves somehow magically managed to unite people of various ages, viewpoints, religions, and professions who attended. And there were many of them, about two hundred... And they all had enough space to freely and individually bid farewell to the deceased – some with streams of tears, others with bursts of laughter or quiet contemplation brought on by warm memories, while watching the bonfire's flames. I can't imagine a more beautiful, sensitive, and sincere ceremony – during it, I felt very, very clearly that death is indeed a natural part of life. Thank you.
The duration of a farewell ceremony: aPie 30 minutes.
380 €
+ travel expenses
The price includes:
Additional short ceremony in Lithuanian at the graveside or during burial, scattering of ashes
(if purchased with a ceremony at the time of parting)
Additional short ceremony Turkmen: aPie 10 min.
65 €
+ travel expenses
The duration of a farewell ceremony: aPie 30 minutes.
450 €
+ travel expenses
The price includes:
An additional short ceremony in a foreign or two languages at the graveside or during a burial or scattering of ashes
(if purchased with a ceremony at the time of parting)
Additional short ceremony Turkmen: aPie 10 min.
80 €
+ travel expenses
Do you dream of having a loved one officiate your ceremony? Or perhaps you're a gifted wordsmith and wish to write the ceremony text yourself? Do you have a different vision? Don't hesitate to get in touch; we're ready for the most diverse ideas. A ceremony as a love excursion, or perhaps even packaged in a box – these are just a few of the unconventional ceremony solutions we've already brought to life.
The most important part of a humanist funeral ceremony is the telling of the deceased person's life story, sharing cherished memories and anecdotes. Musical pieces or readings are often performed during the ceremony, and family members and friends share memories. Time is also set aside for reflection, a farewell ritual, and burial or the scattering of ashes (if this takes place during the ceremony).
Funeral ceremonies can be held wherever you choose. However, most humanist ceremonies take place in crematoria, at cemeteries, in a parlour, at a place dear to the deceased, or in nature.
Your personally selected celebrant will meet or contact key family members and friends to learn about the deceased and discuss ceremony details. A special questionnaire is sent out and completed. Once the material has been gathered, a unique ceremony script is written, based on this information and incorporating the family's wishes.
Certainly not. We take pride in the fact that every funeral ceremony we create is unique and written to reflect the deceased, to ensure a fitting and heartfelt way to honour and remember them. Of course, we have accumulated a wealth of experience and resources, suitable readings and rituals that we use in our ceremonies, but each story and unique ceremony structure is created individually.
Yes. The vast majority of our clients are people who have lived without religion, either because they don't believe in deities or haven't made up their minds about their beliefs.
Often, people choose humanist funerals because they have participated in similar ceremonies or heard about them and have been impressed by how meaningful and personal the ceremony is. People also choose a humanist farewell because they feel it best reflects the personalities and worldviews of their deceased loved ones. Most often, relatives believe that a religious ceremony would have been hypocritical or inappropriate for the deceased.
We understand that at every funeral, there will be people of different faiths and those who do not believe at all. We believe that everyone attending should feel comfortable and included. Above all, we always include time for personal reflection during the ceremony, which can also be used to quietly pray in one's thoughts for the deceased.
From reviews, we know that religious people also find humanistic funerals moving and meaningful.
There is no need to include anything in the funeral service that you do not like. This includes readings. Nevertheless, there are a surprisingly large number of wonderful readings and poems suitable for non-religious ceremonies. Your Celebrant will advise on this and make some suggestions. They will also be happy to read a reading for you if you decide to include one.
Ceremonies can take place on the day of death or six months later, depending on the wishes of the deceased and their loved ones.
While our ceremonies are not religious, we understand that there are certain aspects of religion that have become part of our culture and daily experience. For example, certain hymns may remind people of their youth. We are happy to include such content where it helps to reflect the deceased, but not as an act of worship.
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